General Secretary Xi Jinping attaches great importance to reading for all people, pointing out that "we should advocate reading more books, build a book-scented society, and constantly improve the people's state of mind and enhance their spiritual strength, so that the spiritual world of the Chinese nation can be more profound and deeper".

In order to create a good reading atmosphere and promote the cultural atmosphere of "love reading, read good books, good reading", Wujiang District Federation of Trade Unions has carried out the "Wu Gonghui, happiness set" reading activities for workers. Recently, Pingwang Federation of Trade Unions and Ausheng Trade Union jointly carried out the summer reading club sharing and exchange activities with the theme of "'reading' with craftsmanship, sharing the rhyme of books" to share the reading experience and realize the beauty of reading.

The atmosphere of the reading club was active, everyone talked about what they thought, felt and realized from different perspectives, and shared the harvest and happiness brought by reading. Sharer's voice and feelings, listeners deeply infected, so that the heart and mind to get collision, emotion and emotion to get resonance, so that everyone in the audience are deeply inspired.

Let's take a look at the books and feelings shared by the participants.

The Five Languages of Love Recommended by: Song Silong

Thanks to the company to organize book sharing activities, through this opportunity, I chose the "Five Languages of Love" for complete reading.

The main target of this book is married couples, of course, the methodology conveyed in it: couples, girlfriends, buddies, coworkers, etc. is also applicable. The author compares love to a "love box", which depends on two people to maintain together. Each person needs to continuously capture the needs of the other half, and effectively utilize the "five languages" to "refuel" for years to maintain love for a long time. "The book is written through a series of vivid stories and stories of people who are in love. This book is an in-depth introduction to these five languages through vivid examples: words of affirmation, moments of elaboration, acceptance of gifts, acts of service, and physical touch. We interactively recognize each other's "love languages" and skillfully use them to keep our "love boxes" full.

Interestingly, the last two chapters will be based on social practice, with a questionnaire to determine which language we prefer for ourselves and our loved ones, which is very beneficial.

The Five Languages of Love Recommended by: Liu Xiaoting

The biggest lesson I learned from The Five Languages of Love is that although we all love each other, we express and receive love in different ways. I like to express love in practical terms. Since everyone has a unique love language, it is necessary for us to know each other's love language well enough, which will reduce a lot of communication barriers and relationship obstacles.

No matter what our love language is, the point is to make the other person feel valued and loved. When the other person's love box is overflowing, they will be able to love others more, which will lead to a win-win situation and a more and more harmonious relationship.

Nonviolent Communication Recommended by: Irene Cheng

Nonviolent Communication is not a tool book that gives you communication techniques and templates in the traditional sense, it is more like a "wise man" who teaches you how to speak well, treat yourself calmly, and be generous to others.

Read "nonviolent communication", I realized that not only bad words will hurt like June cold, many small details in life, often not paying attention to a sentence may cause others upset. Everyone is an independent individual, the premise of communication between people is "mutual respect and understanding". In interpersonal communication, we should always keep this premise in mind, otherwise it will cause many unnecessary conflicts.

Nonviolent Communication shows us the four elements of communication - observation, feeling, need and request. First, "observation" means that we should maintain objectivity when describing events, without judgment and criticism. Similarly, when others are talking to us, we should also maintain a "non-judgmental and non-critical" attitude and listen carefully. Second, "feelings" means that we should fully express our emotions without blaming others. Needs" means that we express our needs, but remember that we cannot ask others to fulfill our expectations in the process. Request" means that we ask others to take action, but not in a commanding or demanding tone.

In our daily lives, many situations where we communicate with others cause conflict because we are trying to change them. This goes against the premise of our communication - mutual respect and understanding. When we try to adjust our tone and wording before communicating with others, we will get better communication results.

Reading precipitates the color of life, and learning illuminates the ideal journey. In the future, Aosheng Hi-tech will continue to promote the reading and exchange activities to go deeper and deeper, to further enrich the reading experience and spiritual and cultural life of the majority of workers, and to build a broad reading and exchange platform for more workers and masses. Encourage the majority of workers to learn from books, learn from practice, and learn from the role models around them, and strive to promote the formation of a good atmosphere of bookish labor unions and universal reading.